Ten Wedding Disaster Prevention Tips

We've all heard stories of wedding disasters. They are stories of stress meltdowns as a result of a lack of aspirin or hair clips when they are needed, over bearing relatives, uncooperative weather, or...? Such accounts are the stuff of morning personality radio shows, magazine articles, and more. But most wedding day disasters can be managed with an ounce of prevention.

1. Focus on the Celebration: It is easy to allow yourself to get so wrapped up in staging a wedding that you forget that apart from the legal aspects of the ceremony, the wedding is more about celebrating the beginning of your new life together than it is creating a perfect day. It is a party. Let yourself enjoy the celebration. If you have a wedding day disaster, if something falls over, prevent it from becoming a major catastrophe by laughing at it as if you had just seen the same incident on America's Funniest Home Videos.
   
2. Designate Contact People: On your wedding day you cannot be in all places at all times, yet there are always a thousand little details that you will not have anticipated or at least have not adequately communicated. That is just the way big productions like weddings are. So the next wedding disaster prevention tip is, if you choose not to use a wedding planner, to designate specific contact people to help coordinate your wedding day. Share with each one of them your vision of how your wedding in their specific area and then be gracious with the decisions they make. Be sure to have one in the area of the reception for the pastry chef and florist to contact, another in charge of the ceremony for the florist and clergy to touch base with, and another responsible for the photography (choose someone who knows everyone in your party and who can and will track down missing family members at the bare minimum).
   
3. Wedding Day Survival Kit: Borrow, build, or buy one. The stress of the wedding day is notorious for creating scenarios where a melt down is triggered by something as trivial as lost bobby pins or the unexpected need for a seam ripper, or needle and thread, super glue, safety pins, earring backs, deodorant, etc. These are all items you will need eventually anyway so you won't be wasting money by investing now in a wedding day survival kit to prevent a wedding day disaster.
   
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